EHCP update



This is a short impromptu post as I’m tired, angry, emotional …and then some more tired. But I still needed to put something on here, if only to clear my head a bit.

So Little C’s EHC (Education, Health and Care ) assessment request was heard at ‘the panel’ today and I’ve just had an email saying they won’t be assessing him. 

It took such a long time to even get to this point. The amount of evidence we had provided plus the reports that the SEN team had obtained themselves were all in favour of Little C needing a highly specialised and bespoke education. All the professionals who attended at Mondays Early Help meeting were really optimistic that he would be accepted for it and we even talked about what kind of setting or provision might be best for him in the future. 

So to say we’re disappointed is an understatement. I’m so utterly exhausted today. More so than usual. At the moment I actually can’t bare the thought of fighting this. It’s so hard having to keep finding the energy to fight for everything. Life at home with Little C is challenging enough without all these extra battles. I’m drained. I just want to curl up in a ball and hide (and sleep) for a few days. Hopefully tomorrow I’ll feel a bit better and  then I’ll start the ball rolling for mediation and appeal. Wish me luck 





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